Sisters, Different flowers of the same garden ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
My sister isn't the greatest, the funniest
or even the most perfect in all the world, but she sure is all of that to me.
My sister is someone I can trust, someone I can relate to and laugh with. She's
my role model, my friend and, in my eyes, the best sister anyone could ever
have.
I don't think anyone can understand just
how great my relationship with my sister is …. We don't bicker or fight like
most siblings do or get on each other’s nerves so much that we'll stop talking
to each other for days. We love each other with only a love that a sister can
give and an understanding so great that no words can describe it.
Of course I'm not saying that our
relationship is perfect. Far from it in fact, but what I am saying, is that it
is quite different than the way most relationships are carried out. We interact
with each other differently than most people do in certain situations. When we
fight, there is no physical contact or abusive language, only the occasional
sharp word or glare. We aren't lovey, touchy like some siblings either. We give
each other space but at the same time stick to each other like glue.The
only way that we learned how to fight was silently. We don't hit, push, or jab,
we silently fume under vicious glares and say 'please stop doing that' or
simply just 'stop'. When my sister gets mad at me she has this certain tone of
voice and certain mannerisms that I know to stay away from. I've learned to
look for a certain tone of voice in all of my family members, but I know my
sister's the best. It's not threatening or insulting just stern. She also gets
very quiet and almost rigid when she's mad with no spring in her step when she
walks. All of this I know, because I've watched her and also because I am the
same way. Now the point that I am getting to is that
I understand my sister a lot. I know when she's mad, so I know how and when to
stay away from her. I don't talk to her, unless I am asking a question, I try
to give her as much space as possible and I try, under every possible
circumstance, to not make her angrier. I believe that because I do this, she
understands and does the same for me. When I am mad and don't want to talk to
anyone she stays out of my way, respecting my space. Because of this, I am
grateful for my sister and it makes me love her even more. Of course on the rare occasions that we do
fight, one of two things happens: either we leave each other alone or we try to
break the tension in some way. Our fights, which as strange as it sounds, are
another reason why I love my sister so much. When our fights are over, our use
of snappy remarks exhausted, and we have established the fact that, usually I,
have done something in the wrong, we usually stay seated and wait for time to
resolve our problems. This usually works out pretty well with us not really
forgiving each other, but staying out of each other's hair for the time being.
But this is not the reason why I love my sister so much. The reason lies in
what she doesn't do, not what she does. She doesn't say 'I told you so' or
force me to say I'm sorry. She doesn't nag, hackle, or pressure me in any way,
just leaves me alone. Sometimes after a fight she'll even break the tension by
saying something funny or asking my opinion. my sister, my role model, my best
friend, has taught me to say 'I love you' to my family when I mean it and to
lift people's spirits by saying jokes, sarcastic remarks, or simply laughing at
myself. And she is, till this day, still teaching me. My sister's attitude is something that I
adore. She is kind hearted, she does loves animals, she is sweet and courteous
to everyone she meets, she always says please and thank you, even to the bus
driver, and she is always there to lend a helping hand. Her attitude and spirit
is always something that I have admired and always something that I have sought
to achieve myself. It's not as if I envy her or anything, I am far beyond that.
I look upon my sister with something so indescribable and powerful, something
so pure and sweet, that my heart bursts with happiness and pride. Every time my
sister gets recognized for an accomplishment or award that she won, my heart
skips a beat and my legs become so restless that I could jump for joy. I want
to shout to the crowd 'That's my sister! The best in the world!' Another thing that my sister has taught me
is to not be jealous and covet someone else's treasure. Now, my sister is a
great artist, one of the best in my eyes, and I am not just saying that because
she is my sister, I am saying that because she really is. All of her life she
has been a phenomenal artist, always drawing and sketching. She draws people
the best, but I believe everything she draws is on the same level of her
artistic ability…. She has taught me so much in my lifetime and for that I am
eternally grateful. My sister is the best. The sweetest,
kindest, most generous person that you will ever meet. She always has a smile
on her face and is always willing to give. I don't know how I ever would have
lived without my hero in my life. There aren’t enough words or time in this
world to describe the love I have for her. She's my best friend and the one
person that I can be my crazy self around. My sister's my role model, my hero.
I love her with all my aching heart, forever and always.
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