Sisters, Different flowers of the same garden ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️



My sister isn't the greatest, the funniest or even the most perfect in all the world, but she sure is all of that to me. My sister is someone I can trust, someone I can relate to and laugh with. She's my role model, my friend and, in my eyes, the best sister anyone could ever have.
I don't think anyone can understand just how great my relationship with my sister is …. We don't bicker or fight like most siblings do or get on each other’s nerves so much that we'll stop talking to each other for days. We love each other with only a love that a sister can give and an understanding so great that no words can describe it.
Of course I'm not saying that our relationship is perfect. Far from it in fact, but what I am saying, is that it is quite different than the way most relationships are carried out. We interact with each other differently than most people do in certain situations. When we fight, there is no physical contact or abusive language, only the occasional sharp word or glare. We aren't lovey, touchy like some siblings either. We give each other space but at the same time stick to each other like glue.The only way that we learned how to fight was silently. We don't hit, push, or jab, we silently fume under vicious glares and say 'please stop doing that' or simply just 'stop'. When my sister gets mad at me she has this certain tone of voice and certain mannerisms that I know to stay away from. I've learned to look for a certain tone of voice in all of my family members, but I know my sister's the best. It's not threatening or insulting just stern. She also gets very quiet and almost rigid when she's mad with no spring in her step when she walks. All of this I know, because I've watched her and also because I am the same way. Now the point that I am getting to is that I understand my sister a lot. I know when she's mad, so I know how and when to stay away from her. I don't talk to her, unless I am asking a question, I try to give her as much space as possible and I try, under every possible circumstance, to not make her angrier. I believe that because I do this, she understands and does the same for me. When I am mad and don't want to talk to anyone she stays out of my way, respecting my space. Because of this, I am grateful for my sister and it makes me love her even more. Of course on the rare occasions that we do fight, one of two things happens: either we leave each other alone or we try to break the tension in some way. Our fights, which as strange as it sounds, are another reason why I love my sister so much. When our fights are over, our use of snappy remarks exhausted, and we have established the fact that, usually I, have done something in the wrong, we usually stay seated and wait for time to resolve our problems. This usually works out pretty well with us not really forgiving each other, but staying out of each other's hair for the time being. But this is not the reason why I love my sister so much. The reason lies in what she doesn't do, not what she does. She doesn't say 'I told you so' or force me to say I'm sorry. She doesn't nag, hackle, or pressure me in any way, just leaves me alone. Sometimes after a fight she'll even break the tension by saying something funny or asking my opinion. my sister, my role model, my best friend, has taught me to say 'I love you' to my family when I mean it and to lift people's spirits by saying jokes, sarcastic remarks, or simply laughing at myself. And she is, till this day, still teaching me. My sister's attitude is something that I adore. She is kind hearted, she does loves animals, she is sweet and courteous to everyone she meets, she always says please and thank you, even to the bus driver, and she is always there to lend a helping hand. Her attitude and spirit is always something that I have admired and always something that I have sought to achieve myself. It's not as if I envy her or anything, I am far beyond that. I look upon my sister with something so indescribable and powerful, something so pure and sweet, that my heart bursts with happiness and pride. Every time my sister gets recognized for an accomplishment or award that she won, my heart skips a beat and my legs become so restless that I could jump for joy. I want to shout to the crowd 'That's my sister! The best in the world!' Another thing that my sister has taught me is to not be jealous and covet someone else's treasure. Now, my sister is a great artist, one of the best in my eyes, and I am not just saying that because she is my sister, I am saying that because she really is. All of her life she has been a phenomenal artist, always drawing and sketching. She draws people the best, but I believe everything she draws is on the same level of her artistic ability…. She has taught me so much in my lifetime and for that I am eternally grateful. My sister is the best. The sweetest, kindest, most generous person that you will ever meet. She always has a smile on her face and is always willing to give. I don't know how I ever would have lived without my hero in my life. There aren’t enough words or time in this world to describe the love I have for her. She's my best friend and the one person that I can be my crazy self around. My sister's my role model, my hero. I love her with all my aching heart, forever and always.


Comments

Ritzey said…
This is the cutest thing I read today❤️❤️❤️
- yours boudi
Aadya Bhargava said…
thank you sosososososomuch dearesst bou-di-jaan ❤️❤️❤️
Unknown said…
I like the perfect balance in your writing. well written.
Aadya Bhargava said…
thank you ver much sagar bhaiya
Unknown said…
Buldi your this blog made me cry...you have written alot ....which I'm not capable of....after reading this..I have no words to describe my thanks and recent situation...


Your Rooh jaan..
Unknown said…
Kasam se yrr dii ... Padhthe hi ekdum se mza aa gya
Bht hi zyaada aacha likha hai..😍
Aadya Bhargava said…
baby doll ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️your place in my life and in my heart is permanently registered trademarked ...no one can even knock at that place to come........you are very very very special....and i love you so much ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Aadya Bhargava said…
thank you dearest campionite ❤️❤️❤️but ye bhi to batao ki kya zyada accha laga jo likha wo ya jiske bare me likha😜
Anuj bhargava said…
Ahha...so sweet. It's so precious , lovely and meaningful..cheers..✌️✌️
Aadya Bhargava said…
thank you bhaijaan❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Unknown said…
😍😍💯💯💯

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